What to change first

Once you have identified things you would like to change, which are most likely things that bring you discomfort you will need to determine what is the the first thing you would like to change.  The best way to start is to create a list and out of that list identify what is the most discomforting item.  Be careful you don’t put things on the list that are out of your control.  To determine this ask yourself the question, “Is this something I have personal control over?  Could I actually change this?”

Once you’ve identified the first thing you need to change the next step is to believe you could succeed.  You need to be confident in knowing that you are capable of doing anything you set your mind to.  You must be ready for whatever you may face along the road of change.  Believe in yourself to have the power to change and believe in yourself that you control whatever it is you desire.  You can and you will!

When you find the power within yourself to believe you must stick to the change process.  Oftentimes we want to change and once the change is actually happening we revert back to our old ways of doing and our old ways of thinking because that is what we are most comfortable with.  When change actually happens it’s usually awkward initially because it’s not what we are used to.  This feeling is normal and natural.  Even though we want the change to occur and we worked through the steps to get us there its weird and sometimes a bit unnatural when we finally get there.  Believe that this is what is meant to be because you worked towards this moment and you deserve this.

Identify what you need to change.  Believe that you have the power to change anything you desire.  Stick to the process of the change and you will succeed.

Published by bethechangebutterfly

Mahatma Ghandi once said, “If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. … We need not wait to see what others do.” This statement spurred the popular saying, “Be the change you wish to see in the world.” www.bethechangebutterfly.com was created to help instill that change within you. Stop by for a visit to Be a part of the Change.

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