When life throws you big waves make sure you surf to the top in style. We all are challenged by the pressures in life and getting through those hard times can be more than we could think we could handle. If we steady ourselves and think of how we could manage every dip, turn, and surprise that is given us one tiny step at a time we will survive.
Think of a time when life was at an all time low for you. What did you do and who did you turn to? This is important to remember because we need to know who we could rely on to help us get steady and strong on our feet.
Next think about how you got through that nasty time in your life. Did you rush through it to forget about it as soon as possible? Did you plan the steps involved ahead of time to prepare yourself for each stage of the challenge? Did you drag every last detail of the incident out with everyone you know. Whatever your style it’s important to realize that what worked for you may not w0rk for another and that is okay. It’s also important to recognize that you survived.
As you reflectt on your success of survival, what did you do right and what did you do wrong? Also, think about what could you do differently the next time life throws you a rocky wave. If we keep rolling into the waves the same way we will continually be hit with the same wave; some bigger than others.
Ultimatly, it’s all about learning a style that works for us to survive. We identify those who helps us get steady and stand on our feet. At every turn, twist, and roll we should be reflecting on what worked and what didn’t work. Once we approach the problem with a better plan of action we equip ourselves to surf to the top in style.